In my life, there have been many stages where I have been waiting, longing for a certain opportunity or moment to come and give me brighter days or joyful moments.
But the days where I waited to succeed, to achieve a goal, and to wait for a beautiful occasion—all these taught me to be patient. Though I try to imbibe, at times it is not easy. whether it’s to get a job, meet your family after a long time, achieve a goal, or succeed in what you have been dreaming of for so long.
When I was young, I went to a hostel against my parents wishes, where I wanted to have my individuality. I always think about why I was bothered about individuality, and I paid for it. I was homesick; there wouldn’t be a night where I got to sleep without crying or missing my parents and siblings. I could have gone back home; maybe I might not end up in a good-rated school, but at least I would be living happily with my parents, but I don’t want to step back from my firm decision. So I waited 5 long years to be with my parents. Though I was visiting them for holidays, living with them is different.
I did this two more times: when I was a mom and when I had a very young kid, and I had to do so to get a job. After taking a break due to delivery, I didn’t get a job where I was living. I waited so long to get the job, so I took it, and again, I paid for it. I felt like I was almost depressed. After a few months of struggle and waiting, I was again with my husband and little one.
And there are many times where I need to wait desperately, honing my skills, discipling myself, and waiting for the right opportunity at the right moment. Waiting is hard, but at the end, it gives good results and teaches many life lessons.